Holiday Greetings
Now that
I have a blog, I will use it rather than email or, God forbid, snail mail, to
send off my greetings for the holidays. To make this a happy or at least a
cheerful holiday, we must all manage to steer our attention away from American
politics, which have certainly reached a low for the entire period since my
arrival in this country on March 9, 1939. Alas, a cheerful holiday also
requires looking away from what is going on in the rest of the world. There
have been worse periods than the present; if you have forgotten, read Timothy
Snyder’s Bloodlands, which I have,
reluctantly, finally started to read. But we are hardly living in an Era of
Good Feeling. However, I am not asking you to put your head in the sand, since
that metaphor applies to people who might do something about the situation they
are ignoring. I doubt that anyone who reads this is privileged or damned to be
in that position.
With that pompous introduction out of the way, let me simply
say that I am thriving in my third year here in Mexico City. Thriving, to be
sure, considering that I will be 88 in a couple of months. I do just about
daily walks in different areas of our neighborhood: my exercise! But I spend much
more of my time at my desk and computer, starting quite early in the morning
with the NY Times, an addiction, and going on to various writing projects,
another addiction.
But
that computer is also the source of another kind of satisfaction, since it
allows me to be in touch with (son) Mark and (his wife) Shannon in Los Angeles
and with a great many friends, going back to Eric (né Erich), a fellow-Heidelberger,
to many acquired on my sojourns through different states and institutions.
Email much more than the telephone saves me from feeling isolated from people I
can no longer expect to encounter in person.
Central
to my life, however, is the fact that I am part of a family and not in an
institution, however plush, of strangers-become-acquaintances of my own generation.
There are four of members, two of each generation, though this fall Max has
begun his course of higher education at the Rhode Island School of Design,
leaving a void here when he is in Providence. Eva is of course still around,
but a trip to inspect several colleges this fall foreshadowed her own departure
before not all that long, to assent to the next stage in life.
One of
the great advantages of joining a well-functioning family is that I don’t have
to be a leader. To put this more modestly, I am mostly not required to make
decisions about what to do next, though I am of course free to do so. The
Salazars are an active bunch and mostly I join in the activities, gustatory,
musical, or outings from shopping to holiday excursions. We are about to depart
for such a one to spend a few days on the beach at Manzanillo, concluding with
a Christmas visit with Miguel’s siblings in Guadalajara.
I want
to conclude this overview of my doings by stressing that none of these doings
would be possible without the quite remarkable versatility of my
clarinetist-daughter, Eleanor. Somehow Ellie calmly keeps half a dozen balls up
in the air: her orchestra job and chamber music gigs, her clarinet students,
the supervision of two lively and active kids, a husband and a household and
more. To all that she has added the patient maintenance of an elderly father. I
am lucky; to Ellie, Miguel, Max, and Eva I am grateful.
To all
of you out there in cyberspace my warm wishes for a very pleasant holiday
season, but, above all, for a good and healthy 2015.
Rudy
December 17, 2014