The Current Sexual Revolution In
the United States
I wish
the impossible: that I could read what future historians have to say about this
period in American history. I would be immensely interested to find out what,
say, twenty or more years of perspective will make of two mostly undoubted
generalizations that characterize the last very few years.
The first
and most clearly causative phenomenon to be noted is the almost explosive
attention paid to dubious and much worse sexual practices perpetrated by
American males, with primary attention focused on men who are to various
degrees prominent. There has been no talk of the behavior of the hoi polloi, if only because their
behavior would have to be revealed via cumbersome research, rather than by a
combination of accusations and confessions.
My own
assessment of this two-fold, call it movement, is mixed. On the one hand, the
revelations of largely male sexual behavior seem very plausible indeed, given,
especially, the widespread quasi voluntary confessions. Little has been
remarked about transgressions, where they exist, by American women. They would in any case probably amount
to a small fraction of that of men and be practically free of the violence, the
coerciveness of men’s behavior.
Most of this strikes me as very positive,
even though I am doubtful that this wave of confessions and accusations will
have a permanent effect on American sexual practices. Remorse and virtuous
resolutions will weaken and wane, with little left by the time a couple of
decades have passed. While I am anything but seriously knowledgeable about
evolution, I am confident that experts could point to passages confirming that
pessimism in texts made up of the writings of Darwin and his followers.
Now
more briefly to my second point. Just about everything that has been going on
has been remarkable, even shockingly free of call it procedural safeguards. No
one questions reports of wrongdoing in ways that would make sure that the
versions put forward are the most voracious possible under the circumstances.
Even the confessions of perpetrators deserve to be questioned, given lots of
psychological reasons that make misstatements possible. Not that this is
determinative in the cases we are looking at, but it is worth noting that many
of the drastic changes that have already been made would probably not have been
required if they depended on the verdict of a court of law.
There
is a cost, not much mentioned, namely the loss of the services and
ministrations of a series of talented men. They most certainly are sinners or
were in the past, with many engaging in reprehensible behavior that however
wrongly American society has tolerated in the past.
I read this blog at the time and could not figure out how to respond. As a young woman I distinctly remember the sense of being "prey", and how very uncomfortable that was. There was a professor (not one of mine) at my first, private, liberal arts college, whose sobriquet was "Casper the Grasper"! This at least served as some warning to incoming students...much more needs to be written about power, not sexual magnetism (or lack of).
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